The Fathers Playbook

Episode 12 - Father's Check-Up: A Reflective Journey Through Tears & Triumph

On this Episode the boys reflect on their fatherhood journey thus far, highlighting some of the challenges and key lessons learnt.
 
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Digital Age: Growing up in the 90s vs New Gen

In this insightful episode, our hosts delve into the delicate subject of parenting in the digital age. They candidly discuss their apprehensions about their children's safety in the cyber world and iterate the significance of balancing their exposure to technology with safeguarding them from damaging online elements.
The talks underscore various challenges parents face when their children are deprived of devices like iPads, emphasising the need for enforced controlled usage. The episode further touches upon the early introduction of technology to children, and the potential damages stemming from undue exposure to digital platforms.
Highlights of the episode include discussions on implementing tangible efforts to protect young ones online. One host accentuates the criticality of teaching internet safety as earnestly as real-world safety. An interesting facet of the conversation is the recognition of unusual or secretive behaviour in children, suggesting problematic online engagements.
The dialogue interestingly points out how inappropriate online conduct and perpetrators have always existed, but the pervasiveness of current technology brings them abruptly into the spotlight. The episode ends with a call to prioritise ongoing dialogues about digital security for the young minds.
In the realm of parenting, social media and technology have evolved into prominent themes. This episode takes a deep plunge into personal experiences and generational variations on raising children in a highly interconnected world. Parents open up about the boons and potential pitfalls of introducing their progeny to social platforms and technology, encapsulating a common predicament faced by parents globally.
The parental perspectives shed light on the merits and demerits of early tech-introduction to kids and share personal rules about screen time. The conversation emphasises the importance of striking the right balance between offline experiences and screen time, bringing to fore the unbeatable value of human interaction versus the immense distraction caused by technology.
The episode wraps up with a thought-provoking question to the audience about the appropriate age to introduce kids to technology and if any specific restrictions are in place. The aim is to propel an open discussion and receive inclusive responses from various parental viewpoints.

Episode 10 - From Love in the Flesh to Love in Parenthood

In this episode of "The Father's Playbook," we deep dive into the world of fatherhood. Our special guest is Love in the Flesh Winner, Chibs, and he shares his experiences with his daughter and his perspectives on preparing for his second child.
We explore the anxiety and fears that come with expecting for the first time, the change in dynamics when the second baby comes, and how a child's personality can vary - yet manage to calm their parents in their own unique ways. From grappling with a teething toddler to discussing the impending arrival of a new addition, conversations wind and twist around the multi-faceted dynamics of parenthood.
We also debate around varied work permit rules for fathers, like shared paternity leave, and how it impacts child upbringing. Furthermore, the discussion touches on establishing routines, balancing work, and adjusting to fatherhood - all crucial tools in the fatherhood playbook.
The episode rounds off with a look at how unexpected life events, such as starring in a TV show, can affect parenthood and the decisions that need to be made swiftly in such circumstances. Join us as we explore the challenges of fatherhood one play at a time.

Episode 9 - Hilarious Lessons from the Trenches of Potty Training

In this uproarious episode of 'Father's Playbook,' our hosts bravely journey into the humorous yet challenging world of potty training. The narrative starts on a light note, celebrating their shared passion for football and discussing the interesting bits of their past week. But the real story begins when they dive into the day's primary hot topic - the unpredictable journey of transitioning toddlers from diapers to potty.Chaos, laughter, and unexpected adventures sum up the host's experiences with potty training their little ones. Important issues like nursery school readiness, contradiction between daytime and nighttime training, and toddlers' crafty attempts to manipulate the process are openly addressed. Furthermore, the hosts don't hold back on sharing hysterical misadventures when their attempts at training end with missed targets.The hosts also bring to light their struggles and acceptance of aging. Tales of dad's back pains, failed superman attempts, and juggling hectic professional lives will leave you chuckling. The episode strikes a chord with parents who can easily relate to living through these intriguing moments amidst the trials and tribulations of toddlerhood.From personal strategies to an open discussion about the bizarre concept of paid potty training, this episode of 'Father's Playbook' wonderfully captures every facet of this utmost parenting task. The discussion ends on a high note of camaraderie, with an open invitation for listeners to share their wisdom and techniques on successful potty training. Tune in for laughs, shared experiences, and some practical tips for this critical childhood phase.

Episode 8 - Challenges working with young people

In this episode, Kofi aka Mr Chezzze , our special guest, is not only a Children/ Young Peoples Practitioner, but also an old friend and he brings a gripping tale of transformation from his Ghanaian roots, through tumultuous teenage years to becoming an inspiring mentor. Join us as we listen to Kofi's incredible journey of resilience, redemption, and exploring his passion for working with young individuals. We also delve into weekly reflections and stories shared by our hosts, including powerful accounts on overcoming anxiety and reasserting faith, amusing tales from the nursery, and an intimate recount of a cherished love note from a vacationing son.
Our conversation takes a holistic view of personal growth, focusing on genuinely acknowledging our shortcomings and understanding the importance of therapy in various forms. From professional guidance to heartfelt talks with loved ones, we stress the importance of honing constructive criticism and authentic dialogue. We also discuss Kofi's unique approach to discipline that leverages the interests of young individuals to inculcate good behaviour, underscoring the significance of relating to and understanding younger generations.
From cultural diversity in parenting and its impact on child growth to exploring the compatibility of various cultures, our guests recount their childhood experiences and discuss the generational knowledge carried down within families. These introspective narratives bring to light the implications of cultural diversity and acceptance in parenting today.
Finally, we move towards understanding the essence of education on children's psychological and emotional development. Reflecting on changing teaching attitudes, the episode provides a comprehensive narrative to navigate the complexities of raising children in a diverse world.
Join us as the discussion narrows down to Ghanaian fatherhood topics. Our guest shares the experiences, cultural expectations, and traditions shaping his role as a father. Not shying away from tricky topics like co-parenting and cultural differences, the conversation exemplifies a journey of embracing roots and understanding identity in a multicultural context. This episode presents an insightful representation of fatherhood and culture.

Episode 7 - New Born Challenges

On this episode the boys discuss the challenges of adjusting to a new born ft Brandon
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Episode 6 - Discipline Ft Uncle Jam

On this episode the boys discuss the controversial topic of Discipline.
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Episode 5 - Finance Tips Ft The Money Saving Parent (Chrismas Special)

On this Episode the boys delve into Finances and the importance of Life Insurance with a special guest.
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Episode 4 -Investing

On this episode the boys discuss finding the balance between investing the right time and money in your child.
 
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Episode 3 - Post Natal Depression

On the 3rd Episode the boys discuss the different aspects of Post Natal Depression.
If you're affected by any of the issues raised, do not hesitate to seek help, below are some organisations we found, which assist on the matter;
https://pandasfoundation.org.uk/
https://apni.org/
https://www.nct.org.uk/